What exactly do men look for in an affair

People often think that only women care about their age, because they are keen to hide the traces of age through makeup, clothing, beauty, and body beauty. In fact, men also care about whether they are still young, dynamic, attractive, these things are also a kind of competitive capital for men. But their desire for eternal youth is much more secret than that of women. Why do most men take beautiful young women as lovers? They want to prove through this that they are still attractive and not to be underestimated. Second, to find identity usually only those rich men can afford to find a lover, in the eyes of some people, lover has become a symbol of identity, status, just like villa, famous car, famous clothing, beautiful lover seems to have become a living advertisement of identity men. An ordinary employee of a joint venture enterprise, his income is not high, but since he has a lover, he finds that even the manager seems to give him a second look. Men are far more socialized than women and are more influenced by their environment and popular attitudes than women. Many men emphasize that they fall in love with their lover because she is gentle, beautiful and cares about themselves than their wife, which means that they want to find a better woman. In fact, what men are looking for in their lovers is different from the temperament, style and style of their wives, they like their partners with a sense of mystery and allure, and their wives are quite familiar with each other because they live together for a long time, and their lovers meet their psychological needs. Fourth, to find sexual satisfaction There is no denying that sexual satisfaction is the biggest "harvest" for men in extramarital affairs, and most extramarital affairs, in essence, are of the nature of sex trading. Men with normal sexual life treat extramarital affairs as curiosity, and men with unsatisfactory sexual life transfer and vent their sexual desire through extramarital affairs. Some men regard their lover as a better marriage object, but this proportion is relatively small. Behind the life-and-death love affair, there are many quite complex emotional backgrounds, and the proportion of such affairs that lead to divorce is also quite high.