People in middle age, many parents will go through a special period - menopause, most will become particularly irritable, easy to lose temper, and become particularly nagging. At this time, the understanding and companionship of the family is very important, and we should encourage and accompany our parents more. So how do we deal with parental menopause?
Transposition thinking first of all to correct the state of mind, when parents become nagging in menopause, do not feel irritable, think more about their parents lose their temper, everyone has a bad temper. It is not to be read a few words, if the parents love to talk about the past, you should accompany them to talk more, please keep enough patience.
Patience enlighten people to menopause mood changes a lot, will suddenly feel very depressed, do nothing interested, always complain about this complain about that. At this time, you need to enlighten them a lot, instill some positive energy in them, and make them think good things.
Share housework for parents a lot of the source of irritation is some small things in life, especially mothers, used to do half a lifetime of housework, run the whole family trivia, day after day, will feel particularly tired. Often a small thing is not satisfactory, think a little more, it will affect their emotions. At this time, you should share some housework for your parents and do something within your power.
The biggest advantage of traveling with parents is that it can change a person's mood. Beautiful scenery and new things can divert parents' attention and generate curiosity and interest in these new things.
You can encourage your parents to participate in some community activities, with some peers to do a favorite thing, choir, calligraphy, or square dancing. With new things to do, there's no time for depression.
Try to chat with parents more many parents entering menopause will not accept the fact that they are getting old, feel that their children have grown up do not like to listen to their nagging, but also have their own family and career, a little suffer from gains and losses for their children. So talk to your parents more, say some small things in life, interesting things at work, they will love to hear. Deliberately find some small things to discuss with them, let them give you advice, let them have a sense of accomplishment.